About Jeff
He did all the right things.His wife still said“I want space.”
Jeff isn't coaching from a textbook. He's been the man on the other side of that sentence, and everything Great Men Move Mountains teaches was forged in what came next.
Jeff and his wife, still married and still doing the work. The marriage he almost lost is the reason this business exists.
The good husband
He married young and did everything you’re “supposed” to do.
Jeff worked hard, provided, helped around the house, and tried to be a good man. His wife still ended up unhappy, frustrated, and cold. Confused, he tried to fix it the way most men do, gifts, being extra nice, doing all the chores, skipping time with friends, working harder for more money, and walking on eggshells to keep the peace.
The sentence
All of it only made things worse.
Eventually she said the words Jeff now hears from almost every man he works with: “I want space. This isn’t working. I’m not sure I’m in love with you anymore.” He felt ashamed, betrayed, lost, and angry, crying in a bathroom stall on lunch breaks because he felt so alone.
The turn
That’s when he found men’s work, and started with himself.
Instead of chasing her harder, Jeff went after his own confidence first. The work gave him footing to stand on his own two feet again, and a plan of action that stopped him from making things worse through arguments and blame.
The result
She was attracted to him again. But that wasn’t the real win.
The real win was a solid understanding of his values, integrity, and confidence, regardless of what she thought of him in any given moment. And surprise: that was very attractive to her too. Nobody taught him this when he was young. Now he makes sure other men don’t have to learn it the hard way.
The long road here
Fifteen years of teaching people how to face hard things.
2009
Licensed teacher
Jeff begins his career as a licensed teacher, working with at risk youth, their parents, and families through difficult emotional and behavioral challenges.
2016
Professional coach
Jeff begins coaching professionally with families and parents of at risk youth. His private practice grows quickly enough to become his full time work within a year.
2019
Focused on men and marriage
Jeff increasingly focuses on men, confidence, emotional strength, and relationships. His own marriage struggles make the work deeply personal.
Today
Hundreds of men coached
Jeff has coached hundreds of men and published hundreds of videos on men, marriage, confidence, and personal growth.
Teacher. Mentor. Coach.
Not a therapist. And that's the point.
Jeff doesn't stew in theoretical therapy talk. He gets down to brass tacks quickly, builds a plan that has worked hundreds of times before, and teaches a man exactly what to do to become the man he wants to be.
No swimming in therapy confusion. No repetitive, painful conversations that go nowhere. The goal is to become calm, self assured, intentional, and capable of leading yourself well.
What a man becomes through this work
- Confident no matter what is happening in his marriage
- Loving in the face of emotionally charged situations
- Competent in the confusing spots with his wife
- An attractive partner who can ask for the closeness he wants
Start tonight, on your own
The Kingly Life Program, the online course
Save your marriage and reignite the connection.
Not ready for a call yet? Jeff's video course gives you a clear plan: how to handle her request for space, exactly what to say and what not to say, and how to stop acting from fear.
- 35 video lessons
- 8 hours
- 4 free to watch
- $99 one time
Your move
You can keep trying to figure this out alone. Or you can talk to someone who works with men in this situation every day.
Your first conversation is free