The new book from Jeff Allen
The Good Husband Paradox
The 7 blindspots that destroy love, intimacy, and confidence, and how to become the man your wife respects, desires, and chooses.
By Jeff Allen & Cynthia Kruse
Kindle eBook · Free to read with Kindle Unlimited
You’re trying to save your marriage. But the harder you try, the worse things seem to get.
Your wife is distant. Maybe she says she’s unhappy, wants space, or doesn’t know if she wants to stay married. So you try to fix it. But your confidence is at an all-time low.
- You listen more.
- Help more.
- Apologize.
- Give her space.
- Try to say the right thing.
And you pay attention to every little sign that things might finally be getting better. Before long, your entire life starts revolving around how your wife feels about you, and it’s not attractive.
That’s the Good Husband Paradox.
The problem isn’t that you care too much about your marriage. The problem is fear can sabotage you when you’re scared of losing everything.
Seven blindspots
What you’ll learn to do
Jeff Allen and Cynthia Kruse walk you through seven blindspots that show up when a man is trying desperately to hold his marriage together.
- 01Rebuild your confidence while still caring deeply about your marriage
- 02Stop letting one bad interaction ruin your entire day
- 03Stop needing your wife’s approval to feel okay about yourself
- 04Give her space without pulling away or disappearing
- 05Know when you’re inviting connection and when you’re pressuring her
- 06Stay steady when you have no idea what’s going to happen
- 07Understand what brings back attraction and intimacy
This book isn’t about fake tricks to get your wife back.
And it isn’t about pretending you don’t care. It’s about learning how to care for her without losing yourself.
You can fight for your marriage and become a stronger, more confident man at the same time.
- Format
- Kindle eBook
- Length
- 110 pages
- Published
- October 3, 2026
- Publisher
- Great Men Move Mountains Press
- Authors
- Jeff Allen & Cynthia Kruse
Available on Amazon Kindle. Read it on any phone, tablet or computer with the free Kindle app.
About the author
Jeff Allen, Master Coach for Men
Jeff almost lost his own marriage doing all the right things. A licensed teacher since 2009 and a professional coach since 2016, he has coached hundreds of men and published hundreds of videos on men, marriage, confidence and personal growth.
Read Jeff’s story